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Episode 50 “When Unicorns Attack”

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Welcome to Episode 50 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast “When Unicorns Attack”

Weve been out of pocket for a few extra weeks, so we thought we would dive in to a topic that we have been asked about multiple times.

We start the episode talking about some things we have going in our personal lives, and look forward to our upcoming anniversary trip,

we then cover the few lifestyle things we have been attending , while trying to relocate across town. We get into some of the HotHusband dates Mr Flamingo has had, and our reconnection afterwards .

Finally we discuss the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly inlvolved with pursuing unicorns. We pull from real life failures and successes, as well as some shared stories .

So, get comfortable, grab your favorite drink, and come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 49 “Slut Shaming……..Yourself”?

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Welcome to Episode 49 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

In this episode we take on the long standing problem of slut shaming.

We start off the episode addressing Mr Flaminogs undying love for Taylor Swift. From there we delve into a few of the events we have been attending , despite being somewhat on a hiatus from lifestyle events and activities. We tackle a question submitted by a listener regarding male arousal.

DIving into our topic, we break down the ideas and consequences of slut shaming, but more specifically, slut shaming in the swinging lifestyle. We reference real life examples that have been directed at us, as well as identify how easy it is to fall into judging others.

SO, grab your favorite drink, fire up the HiFi, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 45 ” Signs, Signs, everywhere Signs

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Welcomei to Episode 45 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

In this episode we get into some uniqure discussions(even for us). We start off talking about some fun dates we have been enjoying, as welll as big trip we took with some lifestyle friends to New Orleans, and then Gulf Shores Alabama.

We then discuss a new dynamic we seem to be venturing into….”hot husbanding” . This leads to talks about why we are going this direction, and we talk thru some of the Do’s and Dont’s that will be our playbook.

Finally we get into the topic at hand, and that is what are Toxic Traits and Red Flags in the lifestyle. We see this mentioned frequently on swinger sites and social media. What are these supposed “red flags” …do they exist, and for God’s sake are we guilty of any?? You might be surprised to hear how this conversation plays out.

So, as always…sit back, enjoy a beverage on us, and Lets Flamingle !

Episode 42 ” Is it OUR resposibility to promote the lifestyle to others” ?

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Hey guys, welcome to Episode 42 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

I this episode, we have 80 mins of juicy lifestyle events and discussions in store for you. Damn did we have a crazy weeks to share with you.

While we didnt have the bandwidth to cover it all this episode, we talk about a pair of sexy house parties we attended, a wacky St Paddys pubcrawl with a group of LS friends, an UBER ride from hell, and a couple of sexy 2X2 dates. Whew, just typing that is making me tired .

Then we delve into a quick topic that came from an online debate we were involved in, and that is “should we be promote the lifestyle to others” As always, we weigh the pros and cons and offer out insight into this debate.

So, fire up the old WiFi…..pour yourself a stiff drink, and come Flamingle with us .

Episode 34 “Don’t be the Drama-llama”

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Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release.

We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. Until we started talking about it, we didn’t realize exactly how busy we have actually been.

We cover it all…Everything from Mrs Flamingo getting sexy with our girlfriend during her birthday party, to a hot date we had with an out of town couple at a crazy alternative event, and even some about us getting back into the car show scene.

As always, we try to keep it somewhat relevant and discuss a topic. This time we chat about a question someone asked at a recent event, and that is “why do we tolerate drama in the lifestyle” God knows we have seen some of this over the years, and I think most everyone will be able to relate to these examples.

As always, thanks for listening. Now …”Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

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In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends. Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

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Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 17 – “Do More Rules Mean Less Fun ?”

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In Episode 17 – “Do more rules mean less fun?”, we finally break down what our rules are in the lifestyle, as well as our personal boundaries.

You thought we were done podcasting, but here we are with another crazy episode. We admit we have been out of the loop for a few weeks, and we finally fess up as to why.

We start off this episode with our recent travel adventures. First up was a hot date at our local Colette club, where Mrs Flamingo experiments with some girl play, until it’ abruptly cut short. Next we travel to Colette New Orleans, for another fantastic icandy party.

Diving head first in to this months topic, we talk about our rules, why we have them in place, and also how we have made refinements to them over the years. We also look at some unique rules we have heard over the years, and what our takes were on these.

We share a few secrets in this episode as well, so wont you come “Flamingle” with us?

Episode 15 – Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle

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In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently .

We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway contest with our merchandise store http://www.fullswapshop.com too !

Getting into the topic, we openly discuss our views on exactly what we think a single male in the lifestyle needs to know. While singles males often get a bad rap. we break down what we think it means to be a “solid” single male, as well as go thru some VERY bad examples we have come in contact with.

On the topic of how the single males are treated, we delve a little bit into the inequality of how guys are shown a different set of standards than women, as well as how “married” men can end up being more disrespectful and aggressive than single guys.

Our opinions here may hit home with some, and at the same rub others wrong. But we assure you that you will come away with some new ideas.

So, wont you come “Flamingle” with us ??