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Episode 34 “Don’t be the Drama-llama”

Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release.

We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. Until we started talking about it, we didn’t realize exactly how busy we have actually been.

We cover it all…Everything from Mrs Flamingo getting sexy with our girlfriend during her birthday party, to a hot date we had with an out of town couple at a crazy alternative event, and even some about us getting back into the car show scene.

As always, we try to keep it somewhat relevant and discuss a topic. This time we chat about a question someone asked at a recent event, and that is “why do we tolerate drama in the lifestyle” God knows we have seen some of this over the years, and I think most everyone will be able to relate to these examples.

As always, thanks for listening. Now …”Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 31 “Kissing and telling in the lifestyle”

in Episode 31 “Kissing and Telling in the Lifestyle” we jump headfirst into an all to common question of why people feel the need to brag about lifestyle conquests.

  • Before we jump into the topic at hand, we catch you up on all our zany happenings and travel. First we travel to Oklahoma City to catch our favorite lifestyle comedian and past guest Rob Little http://www.roblittle.com  at the Looney Bin Comedy club in Oklahoma CIty, http://www.okc.looneybincomedy.com  This as usual was an almost complete sell out of lifestyle friends.
  • As we delve into our topics, follow along as we give our opinions on why we feel people have the need to talk about partners they have played with. Sometime this is consensual, but other times it can have dire consequences for those involved.

So come share a bit of your day with us. And as always, feel free to reach out with your opinions on our topics on our various social medias. Now, Lets Go Flamingle !

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to  http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out  the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 17 – “Do More Rules Mean Less Fun ?”

In Episode 17 – “Do more rules mean less fun?”, we finally break down what our rules are in the lifestyle, as well as our personal boundaries.

You thought we were done podcasting, but here we are with another crazy episode. We admit we have been out of the loop for a few weeks, and we finally fess up as to why.

We start off this episode with our recent travel adventures. First up was a hot date at our local Colette club, where Mrs Flamingo experiments with some girl play, until it’ abruptly cut short. Next we travel to Colette New Orleans, for another fantastic icandy party.

Diving head first in to this months topic, we talk about our rules, why we have them in place, and also how we have made refinements to them over the years. We also look at some unique rules we have heard over the years, and what our takes were on these.

We share a few secrets in this episode as well, so wont you come “Flamingle” with us?

Episode 15 – Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle

In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently .

We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway contest with our merchandise store http://www.fullswapshop.com too !

Getting into the topic, we openly discuss our views on exactly what we think a single male in the lifestyle needs to know. While singles males often get a bad rap. we break down what we think it means to be a “solid” single male, as well as go thru some VERY bad examples we have come in contact with.

On the topic of how the single males are treated, we delve a little bit into the inequality of how guys are shown a different set of standards than women, as well as how “married” men can end up being more disrespectful and aggressive than single guys.

Our opinions here may hit home with some, and at the same rub others wrong. But we assure you that you will come away with some new ideas.

So, wont you come “Flamingle” with us ??

 

Episode 14 “My Safeword is Pineapple Snuffaluffagus”

In Episode 14 “My Safewrod is Pineapple Suffaluffagus” we recap some of the swinger adventures and dates we have been on in the last month. We actually had a topic in mind, but realized we had way to much travel to talk about.

We attended a HUGE party that the icandy group (http://www.icandyparties.com) put on at Colettes Club in Austin TX ( https://coletteclubs.com/austin/ ). As always , Icandy goes above and beyond with sexy people and a sexy environment. Be sure and check out their parties near you.

We cover an event we attended at the Purple Peacock Nude Resort here in Texas (https://www.purplepeacockresort.com/) that was hosted by the Swinging Central Texas group (https://swingingcentraltexas.com/ ). This was a super fun party, and we know you’ll enjoy hearing about the “ice party”.

We finished our summer with Guilty Pleasures 2 day hotel takeover pool party (http://guiltypleasureslsclub.com/) . This was our first time at the party, but we were impressed with how big it was in light of recent pandemic issues.

It was a super busy month for us. We cover ALL THIS, plus many more fun and sexy stories. So wont you come Flamingle with us ??

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 11 “Halfway Bi?” or the Expectancy of Bi women in the lifestyle

In Episode 11, we discuss the “Expectancy” of Bi-women in the lifestyle.

We start off with some banter on Mrs Flamingos recent “bi attractions” and get a little insight as to the types of women she seems to be drawn to. Of course we put her on the spot to rattle off 3 celebrities that she has a crush on….and her answers were shockingly (!) all over he place.

We then draw on real life situations we have been in, from being overlooked on swinger sites for marking her “straight” on profiles, to her occasional play with the female half of a couple, to even having husbands try to push their wives (sometimes unwillingly) into sex with another female.

Again, we hope you will come “Flamingle” with us on this sexy half episode.