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Episode 50 “When Unicorns Attack”

Welcome to Episode 50 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast “When Unicorns Attack”

Weve been out of pocket for a few extra weeks, so we thought we would dive in to a topic that we have been asked about multiple times.

We start the episode talking about some things we have going in our personal lives, and look forward to our upcoming anniversary trip,

we then cover the few lifestyle things we have been attending , while trying to relocate across town. We get into some of the HotHusband dates Mr Flamingo has had, and our reconnection afterwards .

Finally we discuss the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly inlvolved with pursuing unicorns. We pull from real life failures and successes, as well as some shared stories .

 

So, get comfortable, grab your favorite drink, and come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 49 “Slut Shaming……..Yourself”?

Welcome to Episode 49 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

In this episode we take on the long standing problem of slut shaming.

We start off the episode addressing Mr Flaminogs undying love for Taylor Swift. From there we delve into a few of the events we have been attending , despite being somewhat on a hiatus from lifestyle events and activities. We tackle a question submitted by a listener regarding male arousal.

DIving into our topic, we break down the ideas and consequences of slut shaming, but more specifically, slut shaming in the swinging lifestyle. We reference real life examples that have been directed at us, as well as identify how easy it is to fall into judging others.

SO, grab your favorite drink, fire up the HiFi, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 48 “New Year, Same Old Flamingos”

Welcome to Episode 48 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We had a bit of an extended break from recording due to work and family obligations, but we are back with a fun new offering.  In this episode, we catch you up an a lot (but not all) of the things we have been doing in the lifestyle .

For starters, we cover a few of the reason we have decided this will be our final season . We have come to the point that we will turn off he mics and focus on other endeavors . As we’ve said before, this is JUST stories of what we do…NOT who we are.

Getting into actual lifestyle activities, sheesh….we’ve had a lot. From solo Hot-Husband arrangements, to house parties, to couples dates, we have been busy.

SO tune in for our the first episode of our 5th and final season, and come “Flamingle” with us.

 

 

 

Episode 47 “A Pool Party to Remember”

Episode 47 ” A Pool Party to Remember”

Wow, what can we say about this episode, other than we had a very ODD experience at a pool party,  that left both of us in awe. The events of this party led into some discussions about safety in the LS, as well as the imporatane of not only understanding CONSENT, but also practacing it.

Since we are getting deeper into the “Hot-Husbanding” realm…we chat about how approaching women in different types of relationships can be tricky.

As always, thanks for listening and Flamingl’ing with us !

Episode 42 ” Is it OUR resposibility to promote the lifestyle to others” ?

Hey guys, welcome to Episode 42 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

I this episode, we have 80 mins of juicy lifestyle events and discussions in store for you. Damn did we have a crazy weeks to share with you.

While we didnt have the bandwidth to cover it all this episode, we talk about a pair of sexy house parties we attended, a wacky St Paddys pubcrawl with a group of LS friends, an UBER ride from hell, and a couple of sexy 2X2 dates. Whew, just typing that is making me tired .

Then we delve into a quick topic that came from an online debate we were involved in, and that is “should we be promote the lifestyle to others” As always, we weigh the pros and cons and offer out insight into this debate.

So, fire up the old WiFi…..pour yourself a stiff drink, and come Flamingle with us .

Episode 40 “Are you fishing a dry hole?”

In Episode 40 “Are you fishing a dry hole?” , The Flamingos get in to the discussion if our “fishing” practices are effective, or are we just wasting time. After some recent talks with friends and listeners, we offer up some tips. As basic as it sounds, if your current level of involvement isnt bringing you the play partners you are wanting, maybe its time to “fish” elsewhere.

In addition to this fun filled topic, we also talk about some recent happenings….evereything from Mr Flamingo beings harassed by the Louisiana State Patrol. to a gairl inadvertently setting herself on fire at a local bar. We also talk about some fun and sexy dates we have been on lately.

So pul up a seat, and join us for this episode of The Swinging Flamingos Podcast !

Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

Welcome to Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

In an effort to get caught up from our recent hiatus of recording, we decide to share a few of our favorite stories from our last few months travels

We start with the Pineapple Play Dates Halloween hotel takeover. We decided to go ALL OUT this year on costumes. Give it a listen to see how that worked out for us !

We then get to catch up with our Club OKC peeps at Colette club. We finish out this episode with a crazy meet and greet mid week at a mid-town lesbian bar .

So, grab a handful of those leftover candy corns, and come Flamingle with us !

Episode 37 “It’s Podbash baby”!

Episode 37 ” Its Podbash Baby”!

After nearly a three month hiatus from recording, we are BACK with another action packed episode of our travels. At over an hour and half of content , we apparently had a lot to say!

We start this episode by catching the listeners up with where we have been. Life isn’t always sunshine and roses, and sometimes you have to deal with real problems .

From there we start with a review of Secrets Hideaway resort in Kissimee Florida. This may not be a popular review amongst regulars there, but we find it to be honest based on our few visits.

We then spend the next hour talking about the INCREDIBLE time we had at Podbash this year. We just can say it enough…Podbash is an AMAZING week with AMAZING people.

So, grab a drink, get cozy, and let the Flamingos tell you a litle story !

Episode 31 “Kissing and telling in the lifestyle”

in Episode 31 “Kissing and Telling in the Lifestyle” we jump headfirst into an all to common question of why people feel the need to brag about lifestyle conquests.

  • Before we jump into the topic at hand, we catch you up on all our zany happenings and travel. First we travel to Oklahoma City to catch our favorite lifestyle comedian and past guest Rob Little http://www.roblittle.com  at the Looney Bin Comedy club in Oklahoma CIty, http://www.okc.looneybincomedy.com  This as usual was an almost complete sell out of lifestyle friends.
  • As we delve into our topics, follow along as we give our opinions on why we feel people have the need to talk about partners they have played with. Sometime this is consensual, but other times it can have dire consequences for those involved.

So come share a bit of your day with us. And as always, feel free to reach out with your opinions on our topics on our various social medias. Now, Lets Go Flamingle !

Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin”

In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general.

We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party we threw at an air BnB, that involved some of our sexy friends.

In our main topic, we go over some problems that we have been dealing with in our our experiences with Lifestyle and Swinger clubs.

We go undercover as newbies at a well know local Lifestyle club chain, in an honest effort to get a perspective if  new people are REALLY welcomed into the scene with open arms. What we find out may surprise you.

Then we spend some time going over complaints from our recent trips to what we considered our favorite LS club, and how we have been let down by the direction it seems to be going.

We finish our club tour with an unexpected twist. We take a last minute date to the local Gay clubs for a drag show, and ended up having the most fun we have had anywhere in some time.

Maybe we are getting to old for the club scene?

Anyway, give it a listen, and as always, let us know if you agree or disagree with our ideas and opinions.