Category Archives: podcast

Episode 13 “How does the media portray our lifestyle, and how do you portray our lifestyle?”

In Episode 13, “How does the media portray our lifestyle, and how do you portray our lifestyle?”  , We have some candid discussions about how the media falsely represents swingers in the media. We also discuss the times that the media does right by swingers.

We talk about some additions to  , as well as our new merchandising site

We talk about Mr Flamingos love of clowns(not really) and Mrs Flamingos love of QVC and all things sexual. Mr Flamingo also hits the big time and makes an “A$$” of himself on the Nerds Who Swing Podcast !

We get a little edgy and encourage people in the lifestyle to take an honest look and see if they are adequately representing what it means to be a swinger.

So wont you come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at as well as . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 11 “Halfway Bi?” or the Expectancy of Bi women in the lifestyle

In Episode 11, we discuss the “Expectancy” of Bi-women in the lifestyle.

We start off with some banter on Mrs Flamingos recent “bi attractions” and get a little insight as to the types of women she seems to be drawn to. Of course we put her on the spot to rattle off 3 celebrities that she has a crush on….and her answers were shockingly (!) all over he place.

We then draw on real life situations we have been in, from being overlooked on swinger sites for marking her “straight” on profiles, to her occasional play with the female half of a couple, to even having husbands try to push their wives (sometimes unwillingly) into sex with another female.

Again, we hope you will come “Flamingle” with us on this sexy half episode.

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!”  we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure  by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied!

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 8.5 “Hey, that extra 1/2 matters!”

We try something new in Episode 8.5 “Hey, that extra 1/2 matters”

We decide that we would start doing temporary “follow up” shows to catch the listeners up on what is going down in our world!

In this episode we talk about getting blasted on social media for choosing to attend a few events. We talk about Mrs Flamingos receiving her first public golden shower, and we find Mr Flamingo some new swimwear in the gay boutiques.

We take a minute to catch up on all the sexy new features and members we are enjoying on


Episode 8 “A Transgender Womans Perspective on the Lifestyle “

We wanted to start this Episode by recognizing Pride Month. The LGBQT+ community has taken a back seat to all the current sickness and turmoil in the world.

In this episode we get to Interview a new friend, Foxy. She is a 32 year old Male to Female transgender,  who is very active in both the kink and the swinging community.

We start with the basics questions most people are curious about but never get to ask. We talk about her transition, what she goes thru in choosing this path, and how she decide this is who she was.

Then we get into the juicy stuff….such as her kink and lifestyle backgrounds. It’s an episode full of hypnosis, anal sex, gang bangs, glory holes, and Cum Nazis (Cum Nazis ??).

This was both a very sexual episode, as well as a opportunity to view the lifestyle from a very “alternative” perspective.

We hope you will come “Trans-mingle” with us this episode !

Episode 7 “Remember when we used to do stuff ? That was cool “

In Episode 7, “Remember when we used to do stuff……” We cave in and address that  we feel cut off and isolated from our lifestyle “flock”. We spend some time talking about the events that we loved so much, our tips on conquering these events, and wonder how future events will change in the wake of the Covid-19 pandemic.

In a more humorous light, we get outed as being the neighborhood swingers. Not ready to let that fact out to the rest of the world, we play dumb and try to skirt the issue.

We take an opportunity to check in wth our friends Brandon and Shawna. We chat with them about upcoming events for both the i-candy party group, as well as Secrets Resort in Florida.

And last but not least, we get to let the cat out of the bag and reveal that we are now sponsored by AltPlaygound/APG. This is BIG for us joining in on this fantastic website, and we believe it will be a fun opportunity to party with more sexy people, and grow our show !

So……..won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 6 “Liars, Tigers, and Poor Communicators, Oh My”

In Episode 6, “Liars, TIgers, and Poor Communicators, Oh My”…..we cover the importance of good communication skills.

During this time Of Covid-19 quarantine, we realize that we as a couple need to work on how we speak to not only each other, but how to make our communications clear with those we meet and pursue in the swinging lifestyle.

We talk about instances where the communication between the 2 of us wasn’t as tight as it should be, and tell a few stories where our interaction with couples we have pursued haven’t been clear enough to accurately make a connection.

Tune in before Mrs Flamingo goes all Carol Baskin, and feeds Mr Flamingo to the tigers! 

Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s”

In Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s” we do just that. We go thru some of the things that are positive and negatives for both Mr and Mrs Flamingo when it comes to what we like, as well as dislike in the bedroom.

We dig deeper into what we like in partners, as well as reveal our secret celebrity crushes.

We finish this episode with a game we encourage newbie to play, that will help them identify what they want from partners, as well as build trust in each other.

We hope you’ll come “Flamingle” with us!

Episode 4 “Closing the Quick Sale” an Interview with Priory Society

In Episode 4, “Closing the Quick Sale” we interview our friends Eros and Isis of the Priory Society during our recent trip to Las Vegas.

During our interview, we talk how to sort, pursue, and close the deal with other couple at large lifestyle takeovers or events. We get some real life coaching from them, as a couple that we were courting was moving at different speeds, and left us hanging.

This is a very in depth interview, and discusses various ideas and techniques for developing a skill set of quickly connecting with potential partners when in a crunch situation.

We hope you will spend some time “Flamingling” with us, and join our conversation!