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Episode 16- “Year One” Issues.

In Episode 16 “Year One” Issues, we discuss some problems we have seen pop up over the last few months.

“Year One” issues are something we feel most couples should have worked thru and discussed VERY early in their introduction into swinging. As you will hear, some of these problems may pop up at ANY time.

We’ve had A LOT of adventures lately. In this episode we talk about the iCandy parties (https://icandyparties.com/events.html we have been attending in the Dallas/Ft Worth area. We have also had some more intimate birthday parties with some friends to the north.

Staying with topic, we discuss multiple examples of problems that hit a boiling point, but could have been handled much different. We address how these issues could be fixed with what we call the 3-C’s : Communication, Common Sense, and Courtesy.

Lastly a big shout out to our twitter photo winners Texas LS Couple from Amarillo, and Haylee,ndStu all the way from Australia. They will be getting some swag from our store https://www.fullswapshop.com/theswingingflamingos/. Also be sure and check out our sponsor https://www.altplayground.net/

Episode 15 – Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle

In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently .

We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway contest with our merchandise store http://www.fullswapshop.com too !

Getting into the topic, we openly discuss our views on exactly what we think a single male in the lifestyle needs to know. While singles males often get a bad rap. we break down what we think it means to be a “solid” single male, as well as go thru some VERY bad examples we have come in contact with.

On the topic of how the single males are treated, we delve a little bit into the inequality of how guys are shown a different set of standards than women, as well as how “married” men can end up being more disrespectful and aggressive than single guys.

Our opinions here may hit home with some, and at the same rub others wrong. But we assure you that you will come away with some new ideas.

So, wont you come “Flamingle” with us ??

 

Episode 14 “My Safeword is Pineapple Snuffaluffagus”

In Episode 14 “My Safewrod is Pineapple Suffaluffagus” we recap some of the swinger adventures and dates we have been on in the last month. We actually had a topic in mind, but realized we had way to much travel to talk about.

We attended a HUGE party that the icandy group (http://www.icandyparties.com) put on at Colettes Club in Austin TX ( https://coletteclubs.com/austin/ ). As always , Icandy goes above and beyond with sexy people and a sexy environment. Be sure and check out their parties near you.

We cover an event we attended at the Purple Peacock Nude Resort here in Texas (https://www.purplepeacockresort.com/) that was hosted by the Swinging Central Texas group (https://swingingcentraltexas.com/ ). This was a super fun party, and we know you’ll enjoy hearing about the “ice party”.

We finished our summer with Guilty Pleasures 2 day hotel takeover pool party (http://guiltypleasureslsclub.com/) . This was our first time at the party, but we were impressed with how big it was in light of recent pandemic issues.

It was a super busy month for us. We cover ALL THIS, plus many more fun and sexy stories. So wont you come Flamingle with us ??

Episode 13 “How does the media portray our lifestyle, and how do you portray our lifestyle?”

In Episode 13, “How does the media portray our lifestyle, and how do you portray our lifestyle?”  , We have some candid discussions about how the media falsely represents swingers in the media. We also discuss the times that the media does right by swingers.

We talk about some additions to  http://www.altplayground.net  , as well as our new merchandising site http://www.fullswapshop.com

We talk about Mr Flamingos love of clowns(not really) and Mrs Flamingos love of QVC and all things sexual. Mr Flamingo also hits the big time and makes an “A$$” of himself on the Nerds Who Swing Podcast !

We get a little edgy and encourage people in the lifestyle to take an honest look and see if they are adequately representing what it means to be a swinger.

So wont you come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 11 “Halfway Bi?” or the Expectancy of Bi women in the lifestyle

In Episode 11, we discuss the “Expectancy” of Bi-women in the lifestyle.

We start off with some banter on Mrs Flamingos recent “bi attractions” and get a little insight as to the types of women she seems to be drawn to. Of course we put her on the spot to rattle off 3 celebrities that she has a crush on….and her answers were shockingly (!) all over he place.

We then draw on real life situations we have been in, from being overlooked on swinger sites for marking her “straight” on profiles, to her occasional play with the female half of a couple, to even having husbands try to push their wives (sometimes unwillingly) into sex with another female.

Again, we hope you will come “Flamingle” with us on this sexy half episode.

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!”  we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure  by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!http://www.swingingflamingos.com/photos/

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied! https://www.theclubinokc.com/

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!https://www.altplayground.net/

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 8.5 “Hey, that extra 1/2 matters!”

We try something new in Episode 8.5 “Hey, that extra 1/2 matters”

We decide that we would start doing temporary “follow up” shows to catch the listeners up on what is going down in our world!

In this episode we talk about getting blasted on social media for choosing to attend a few events. We talk about Mrs Flamingos receiving her first public golden shower, and we find Mr Flamingo some new swimwear in the gay boutiques.

We take a minute to catch up on all the sexy new features and members we are enjoying on  www.AltPlaygroud.net

 

Episode 8 “A Transgender Womans Perspective on the Lifestyle “

We wanted to start this Episode by recognizing Pride Month. The LGBQT+ community has taken a back seat to all the current sickness and turmoil in the world.

In this episode we get to Interview a new friend, Foxy. She is a 32 year old Male to Female transgender,  who is very active in both the kink and the swinging community.

We start with the basics questions most people are curious about but never get to ask. We talk about her transition, what she goes thru in choosing this path, and how she decide this is who she was.

Then we get into the juicy stuff….such as her kink and lifestyle backgrounds. It’s an episode full of hypnosis, anal sex, gang bangs, glory holes, and Cum Nazis (Cum Nazis ??).

This was both a very sexual episode, as well as a opportunity to view the lifestyle from a very “alternative” perspective.

We hope you will come “Trans-mingle” with us this episode !

Episode 7 “Remember when we used to do stuff ? That was cool “

In Episode 7, “Remember when we used to do stuff……” We cave in and address that  we feel cut off and isolated from our lifestyle “flock”. We spend some time talking about the events that we loved so much, our tips on conquering these events, and wonder how future events will change in the wake of the Covid-19 pandemic.

In a more humorous light, we get outed as being the neighborhood swingers. Not ready to let that fact out to the rest of the world, we play dumb and try to skirt the issue.

We take an opportunity to check in wth our friends Brandon and Shawna. We chat with them about upcoming events for both the i-candy party group, as well as Secrets Resort in Florida.

And last but not least, we get to let the cat out of the bag and reveal that we are now sponsored by AltPlaygound/APG. This is BIG for us joining in on this fantastic website, and we believe it will be a fun opportunity to party with more sexy people, and grow our show !

So……..won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !