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Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends.  Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George, and Flamingos Lost at Sea”

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George , and Flamingos Lost at Sea” talks about all the crazy lifestyle travel we have been doing, as well an AMAZING dinner party we attended.

We start off this episode reviewing the elegant dinner we had with the Just for Dinner group. https://www.justfordinner.com/  Do you know George? If not, you are missing out on everything he and The Group have to offer. This was out first experience with this event, and hope its not the last. Definitely a top shelf operation.

Then we get into some of the crazier lifestyle parties we have been hitting. Everything from the HUGE icandy event in Houstonhttps://icandyparties.com/ , a sexy Memorial day weekend on the lake,  a close lifestyle couple of ours wedding, to finally one of the baddest private pool parties we have ever seen…complete with a live band and killer foam party.

Dont forget we still got rooms available for our event at Secrets Resort in Florida in October http://www.podbashevent.com

Also be sure and check out our sponsor APG http://www.altplayground.net , and check it out 5 DAYS FOR FREE !! …with promo code : Newbie

Now, lets go Flamingle !

Episode 22 – “Fifty Shades of Kink”

In Episode 22 – “Fifty Shades of Kink”, we break down and discuss some various kinks and fetishes we have encountered over the years.

Since our last few episodes have been a bit more serious in nature, we decide to lighten things up an throw a bit a humor at you.

We start with updating you on our travels, which included a car show trip to Oklahoma CIty that finds us on the side of the road, .a work and party trip that starts with a fist fight on the side of the road, and a crawfish boil that we sneak off early, in hopes of bagging a unicorn for the night.

Then we get into some kinks and fetishes, some of which we have never discussed before, and end up being surprise at each others answers. From impact play, to water sport, we trough through multiple scenarios, and discover that we might have some “furries” action in our near future.

So…..come along and flamingle with us !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to  http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out  the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 20 ” Curse of the Flamingos ” a.k.a. Our Weekend in Miami

What’s this……2 episodes in the same month ?

Anyway, fresh off the heels of our trip to Miami to meet with George and Ann of the The Group/ Just for Dinner. (https://the-group.co/) we decide to hit you guys with a fun bonus episode.

As we work our way to a sexy yacht in MIAMI, we deal with multiple issues before actually setting foot on the boat. While in Florida, we get to meet up with a host of sexy podcasters from APG (https://www.altplayground.net/) . While we were all on our best behavior, you cant put together a group of podcasters without attracting the attention of the police (multiple times at that )

This episode is standard for most of our trips, fun, sexy, wacky….and just plain screwed up at times.

So ….won’t you come “Flamingle” with us on our adventures ?

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk Into a Bar” with Rob Little!

In Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk into a Bar” we have the pleasure of chatting with superstar comedian Rob Little http://www.roblitle.com.

What else can we say about this episode, other then its our funniest one to date. We meet up with Rob while he is performing in our previous hometown of Oklahoma City for a week of sold out shows at the Loony Bin https://okc.loonybincomedy.com/

We start  catching up with some light banter, such as how he got into the lifestyle, if he works lifestyle jokes into his routine, what he’s been doing during quarantine, and what it like performing comedy naked in front of a crowd.

We then venture into the discussion on exactly “what” makes a swinger, and identify different labels that people put on each other in the swinging lifestyle.

Lastly we talk about both of our nominations in our respective categories in the ASN Lifestyle awards coming up in September. https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/

We hope you will come Flamingle with us and Rob on this episode !

Episode 17 – “Do More Rules Mean Less Fun ?”

In Episode 17 – “Do more rules mean less fun?”, we finally break down what our rules are in the lifestyle, as well as our personal boundaries.

You thought we were done podcasting, but here we are with another crazy episode. We admit we have been out of the loop for a few weeks, and we finally fess up as to why.

We start off this episode with our recent travel adventures. First up was a hot date at our local Colette club, where Mrs Flamingo experiments with some girl play, until it’ abruptly cut short. Next we travel to Colette New Orleans, for another fantastic icandy party.

Diving head first in to this months topic, we talk about our rules, why we have them in place, and also how we have made refinements to them over the years. We also look at some unique rules we have heard over the years, and what our takes were on these.

We share a few secrets in this episode as well, so wont you come “Flamingle” with us?

Episode 16- “Year One” Issues.

In Episode 16 “Year One” Issues, we discuss some problems we have seen pop up over the last few months.

“Year One” issues are something we feel most couples should have worked thru and discussed VERY early in their introduction into swinging. As you will hear, some of these problems may pop up at ANY time.

We’ve had A LOT of adventures lately. In this episode we talk about the iCandy parties (https://icandyparties.com/events.html we have been attending in the Dallas/Ft Worth area. We have also had some more intimate birthday parties with some friends to the north.

Staying with topic, we discuss multiple examples of problems that hit a boiling point, but could have been handled much different. We address how these issues could be fixed with what we call the 3-C’s : Communication, Common Sense, and Courtesy.

Lastly a big shout out to our twitter photo winners Texas LS Couple from Amarillo, and Haylee,ndStu all the way from Australia. They will be getting some swag from our store https://www.fullswapshop.com/theswingingflamingos/. Also be sure and check out our sponsor https://www.altplayground.net/

Episode 15 – Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle

In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently .

We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway contest with our merchandise store http://www.fullswapshop.com too !

Getting into the topic, we openly discuss our views on exactly what we think a single male in the lifestyle needs to know. While singles males often get a bad rap. we break down what we think it means to be a “solid” single male, as well as go thru some VERY bad examples we have come in contact with.

On the topic of how the single males are treated, we delve a little bit into the inequality of how guys are shown a different set of standards than women, as well as how “married” men can end up being more disrespectful and aggressive than single guys.

Our opinions here may hit home with some, and at the same rub others wrong. But we assure you that you will come away with some new ideas.

So, wont you come “Flamingle” with us ??