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Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 26 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 1

In Episode 26 we answer that age old question “Are Singles Swingers?”

Alright…Lets just jump in the fire here. We decided to tackle a topic that we see mentioned somewhere online AT LEAST once a month. In Fact…there is sooooo much to cuss and discuss on this topic, that we will be dividing this into not one, but two back to back episodes.

In this first part, we get a little help from our friends at a recent event, and go thru a handful of interviews, gaining some insight as to what people consider to be “swingers”

We start off with a club owners perspective, and find out what it takes to remain in good standing as a single, as well as what can get you kicked out.

Then we talk with a couple that have both been in the lifestyle as singles, and now dont believe that singles are always a good asset to the LS.

We chat with a unicorn who justifies why she feels she is part of swinging, and spills the beans on some unicorn actions that can bring down the unicorn species.

We have a candid conversation with a couple that prefers both single males and females, but also brings up good points of bad characteristics on both sides.

Lastly we chat with a well vetted and respected area blue fish (or single male), and he gives some tips that he tries to follow when respectfully courting the female half of a couple.

All these well spoken points of view make good arguments to the topic at hand, and will make our job of debating this issue much more difficult in Part 2 of this episode !

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends.  Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George, and Flamingos Lost at Sea”

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George , and Flamingos Lost at Sea” talks about all the crazy lifestyle travel we have been doing, as well an AMAZING dinner party we attended.

We start off this episode reviewing the elegant dinner we had with the Just for Dinner group. https://www.justfordinner.com/  Do you know George? If not, you are missing out on everything he and The Group have to offer. This was out first experience with this event, and hope its not the last. Definitely a top shelf operation.

Then we get into some of the crazier lifestyle parties we have been hitting. Everything from the HUGE icandy event in Houstonhttps://icandyparties.com/ , a sexy Memorial day weekend on the lake,  a close lifestyle couple of ours wedding, to finally one of the baddest private pool parties we have ever seen…complete with a live band and killer foam party.

Dont forget we still got rooms available for our event at Secrets Resort in Florida in October http://www.podbashevent.com

Also be sure and check out our sponsor APG http://www.altplayground.net , and check it out 5 DAYS FOR FREE !! …with promo code : Newbie

Now, lets go Flamingle !

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 14 “My Safeword is Pineapple Snuffaluffagus”

In Episode 14 “My Safewrod is Pineapple Suffaluffagus” we recap some of the swinger adventures and dates we have been on in the last month. We actually had a topic in mind, but realized we had way to much travel to talk about.

We attended a HUGE party that the icandy group (http://www.icandyparties.com) put on at Colettes Club in Austin TX ( https://coletteclubs.com/austin/ ). As always , Icandy goes above and beyond with sexy people and a sexy environment. Be sure and check out their parties near you.

We cover an event we attended at the Purple Peacock Nude Resort here in Texas (https://www.purplepeacockresort.com/) that was hosted by the Swinging Central Texas group (https://swingingcentraltexas.com/ ). This was a super fun party, and we know you’ll enjoy hearing about the “ice party”.

We finished our summer with Guilty Pleasures 2 day hotel takeover pool party (http://guiltypleasureslsclub.com/) . This was our first time at the party, but we were impressed with how big it was in light of recent pandemic issues.

It was a super busy month for us. We cover ALL THIS, plus many more fun and sexy stories. So wont you come Flamingle with us ??

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!”  we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure  by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!http://www.swingingflamingos.com/photos/

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied! https://www.theclubinokc.com/

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!https://www.altplayground.net/

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 8 “A Transgender Womans Perspective on the Lifestyle “

We wanted to start this Episode by recognizing Pride Month. The LGBQT+ community has taken a back seat to all the current sickness and turmoil in the world.

In this episode we get to Interview a new friend, Foxy. She is a 32 year old Male to Female transgender,  who is very active in both the kink and the swinging community.

We start with the basics questions most people are curious about but never get to ask. We talk about her transition, what she goes thru in choosing this path, and how she decide this is who she was.

Then we get into the juicy stuff….such as her kink and lifestyle backgrounds. It’s an episode full of hypnosis, anal sex, gang bangs, glory holes, and Cum Nazis (Cum Nazis ??).

This was both a very sexual episode, as well as a opportunity to view the lifestyle from a very “alternative” perspective.

We hope you will come “Trans-mingle” with us this episode !

Episode 4 “Closing the Quick Sale” an Interview with Priory Society

In Episode 4, “Closing the Quick Sale” we interview our friends Eros and Isis of the Priory Society during our recent trip to Las Vegas.

During our interview, we talk how to sort, pursue, and close the deal with other couple at large lifestyle takeovers or events. We get some real life coaching from them, as a couple that we were courting was moving at different speeds, and left us hanging.

This is a very in depth interview, and discusses various ideas and techniques for developing a skill set of quickly connecting with potential partners when in a crunch situation.

We hope you will spend some time “Flamingling” with us, and join our conversation!