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Episode 48 “New Year, Same Old Flamingos”

Welcome to Episode 48 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We had a bit of an extended break from recording due to work and family obligations, but we are back with a fun new offering.  In this episode, we catch you up an a lot (but not all) of the things we have been doing in the lifestyle .

For starters, we cover a few of the reason we have decided this will be our final season . We have come to the point that we will turn off he mics and focus on other endeavors . As we’ve said before, this is JUST stories of what we do…NOT who we are.

Getting into actual lifestyle activities, sheesh….we’ve had a lot. From solo Hot-Husband arrangements, to house parties, to couples dates, we have been busy.

SO tune in for our the first episode of our 5th and final season, and come “Flamingle” with us.

 

 

 

Episode 42 ” Is it OUR resposibility to promote the lifestyle to others” ?

Hey guys, welcome to Episode 42 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

I this episode, we have 80 mins of juicy lifestyle events and discussions in store for you. Damn did we have a crazy weeks to share with you.

While we didnt have the bandwidth to cover it all this episode, we talk about a pair of sexy house parties we attended, a wacky St Paddys pubcrawl with a group of LS friends, an UBER ride from hell, and a couple of sexy 2X2 dates. Whew, just typing that is making me tired .

Then we delve into a quick topic that came from an online debate we were involved in, and that is “should we be promote the lifestyle to others” As always, we weigh the pros and cons and offer out insight into this debate.

So, fire up the old WiFi…..pour yourself a stiff drink, and come Flamingle with us .

Episode 39 ” New Years Eve at the Decadence Ball”

Episode 39 ” New Years Eve at the Decadence Ball”

Hello sexies, we are back already here in the new year with a new episode! In this fun filled episode, we got lots to cover!

First we get you up to speed with the normal nonsense in out world Then we talk about some sexy swinger dates we have been having. We had a few uber fun lifestyle evets we share with you. One of them was an awesome house party we were invited to, and the other was the PPD’s https://www.pineappleplaydate.com/ “Ugly Sweater Pub Crawl” event.

Lastly we get around to covering our New Years Eve event, Decadence Ball https://decadenceball.com/ . This was our second year attending this event. While it was a huge production, give us a listen to see why we feel it just doesnt “measure up”

Also, Its the return of our favorite unicorn “KayBee” Its been way to long since we got to spend sexy time with this hottie, and we definitely made up for lost time .

So, raise a toast, and make your New Years resolution to “Flamingle” more often !

Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

Welcome to Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

In an effort to get caught up from our recent hiatus of recording, we decide to share a few of our favorite stories from our last few months travels

We start with the Pineapple Play Dates Halloween hotel takeover. We decided to go ALL OUT this year on costumes. Give it a listen to see how that worked out for us !

We then get to catch up with our Club OKC peeps at Colette club. We finish out this episode with a crazy meet and greet mid week at a mid-town lesbian bar .

So, grab a handful of those leftover candy corns, and come Flamingle with us !

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart  of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 26 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 1

In Episode 26 we answer that age old question “Are Singles Swingers?”

Alright…Lets just jump in the fire here. We decided to tackle a topic that we see mentioned somewhere online AT LEAST once a month. In Fact…there is sooooo much to cuss and discuss on this topic, that we will be dividing this into not one, but two back to back episodes.

In this first part, we get a little help from our friends at a recent event, and go thru a handful of interviews, gaining some insight as to what people consider to be “swingers”

We start off with a club owners perspective, and find out what it takes to remain in good standing as a single, as well as what can get you kicked out.

Then we talk with a couple that have both been in the lifestyle as singles, and now dont believe that singles are always a good asset to the LS.

We chat with a unicorn who justifies why she feels she is part of swinging, and spills the beans on some unicorn actions that can bring down the unicorn species.

We have a candid conversation with a couple that prefers both single males and females, but also brings up good points of bad characteristics on both sides.

Lastly we chat with a well vetted and respected area blue fish (or single male), and he gives some tips that he tries to follow when respectfully courting the female half of a couple.

All these well spoken points of view make good arguments to the topic at hand, and will make our job of debating this issue much more difficult in Part 2 of this episode !

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends.  Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George, and Flamingos Lost at Sea”

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George , and Flamingos Lost at Sea” talks about all the crazy lifestyle travel we have been doing, as well an AMAZING dinner party we attended.

We start off this episode reviewing the elegant dinner we had with the Just for Dinner group. https://www.justfordinner.com/  Do you know George? If not, you are missing out on everything he and The Group have to offer. This was out first experience with this event, and hope its not the last. Definitely a top shelf operation.

Then we get into some of the crazier lifestyle parties we have been hitting. Everything from the HUGE icandy event in Houstonhttps://icandyparties.com/ , a sexy Memorial day weekend on the lake,  a close lifestyle couple of ours wedding, to finally one of the baddest private pool parties we have ever seen…complete with a live band and killer foam party.

Dont forget we still got rooms available for our event at Secrets Resort in Florida in October http://www.podbashevent.com

Also be sure and check out our sponsor APG http://www.altplayground.net , and check it out 5 DAYS FOR FREE !! …with promo code : Newbie

Now, lets go Flamingle !

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.