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Episode 47 “A Pool Party to Remember”

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Episode 47 ” A Pool Party to Remember”

Wow, what can we say about this episode, other than we had a very ODD experience at a pool party, that left both of us in awe. The events of this party led into some discussions about safety in the LS, as well as the imporatane of not only understanding CONSENT, but also practacing it.

Since we are getting deeper into the “Hot-Husbanding” realm…we chat about how approaching women in different types of relationships can be tricky.

As always, thanks for listening and Flamingl’ing with us !

Episode 34 “Don’t be the Drama-llama”

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Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release.

We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. Until we started talking about it, we didn’t realize exactly how busy we have actually been.

We cover it all…Everything from Mrs Flamingo getting sexy with our girlfriend during her birthday party, to a hot date we had with an out of town couple at a crazy alternative event, and even some about us getting back into the car show scene.

As always, we try to keep it somewhat relevant and discuss a topic. This time we chat about a question someone asked at a recent event, and that is “why do we tolerate drama in the lifestyle” God knows we have seen some of this over the years, and I think most everyone will be able to relate to these examples.

As always, thanks for listening. Now …”Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

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In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends. Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

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Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk Into a Bar” with Rob Little!

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In Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk into a Bar” we have the pleasure of chatting with superstar comedian Rob Little http://www.roblitle.com.

What else can we say about this episode, other then its our funniest one to date. We meet up with Rob while he is performing in our previous hometown of Oklahoma City for a week of sold out shows at the Loony Bin https://okc.loonybincomedy.com/

We start catching up with some light banter, such as how he got into the lifestyle, if he works lifestyle jokes into his routine, what he’s been doing during quarantine, and what it like performing comedy naked in front of a crowd.

We then venture into the discussion on exactly “what” makes a swinger, and identify different labels that people put on each other in the swinging lifestyle.

Lastly we talk about both of our nominations in our respective categories in the ASN Lifestyle awards coming up in September. https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/

We hope you will come Flamingle with us and Rob on this episode !

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 2 “Popping Cherries”

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In Episode 2, We talk about getting our lifestyle “cherries” popped. We discuss our progression from checking out a swinger club on a whim, to funny incident we had prior to calling ourselves swingers, and finally committing to swinger parties and finding our perfect first couple.

We start our episode with travel we have been doing over the last 2 months, and move on to topics such as first time jitters getting into the lifestyle, concerns and discussions we had as we progressed, and how our outlook on the whole lifestyle evolved in our early stages.

We feel this is a good primer episode for newbies looking to get into the lifestyle, and give an honest and upfront view from our former “newbie” standpoint.