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Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends.  Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to  http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out  the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk Into a Bar” with Rob Little!

In Episode 18 “Two Flamingos and a Comedian Walk into a Bar” we have the pleasure of chatting with superstar comedian Rob Little http://www.roblitle.com.

What else can we say about this episode, other then its our funniest one to date. We meet up with Rob while he is performing in our previous hometown of Oklahoma City for a week of sold out shows at the Loony Bin https://okc.loonybincomedy.com/

We start  catching up with some light banter, such as how he got into the lifestyle, if he works lifestyle jokes into his routine, what he’s been doing during quarantine, and what it like performing comedy naked in front of a crowd.

We then venture into the discussion on exactly “what” makes a swinger, and identify different labels that people put on each other in the swinging lifestyle.

Lastly we talk about both of our nominations in our respective categories in the ASN Lifestyle awards coming up in September. https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/

We hope you will come Flamingle with us and Rob on this episode !

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 2 “Popping Cherries”

In Episode 2, We talk about getting our lifestyle “cherries” popped. We discuss our progression from checking out a swinger club on a whim, to funny incident we had prior to calling ourselves swingers, and finally committing to swinger parties and finding our perfect first couple.

We start our episode with travel we have been doing over the last 2 months, and move on to topics such as first time jitters getting into the lifestyle, concerns and discussions we had as we progressed, and how our outlook on the whole lifestyle evolved in our early stages.

We feel this is a good primer episode for newbies looking to get into the lifestyle, and give an honest and upfront view from our former “newbie” standpoint.