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Episode 49 “Slut Shaming……..Yourself”?

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Welcome to Episode 49 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

In this episode we take on the long standing problem of slut shaming.

We start off the episode addressing Mr Flaminogs undying love for Taylor Swift. From there we delve into a few of the events we have been attending , despite being somewhat on a hiatus from lifestyle events and activities. We tackle a question submitted by a listener regarding male arousal.

DIving into our topic, we break down the ideas and consequences of slut shaming, but more specifically, slut shaming in the swinging lifestyle. We reference real life examples that have been directed at us, as well as identify how easy it is to fall into judging others.

SO, grab your favorite drink, fire up the HiFi, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

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Welcome to Episode 38 “Halloween in December”

In an effort to get caught up from our recent hiatus of recording, we decide to share a few of our favorite stories from our last few months travels

We start with the Pineapple Play Dates Halloween hotel takeover. We decided to go ALL OUT this year on costumes. Give it a listen to see how that worked out for us !

We then get to catch up with our Club OKC peeps at Colette club. We finish out this episode with a crazy meet and greet mid week at a mid-town lesbian bar .

So, grab a handful of those leftover candy corns, and come Flamingle with us !

Episode 34 “Don’t be the Drama-llama”

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Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release.

We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. Until we started talking about it, we didn’t realize exactly how busy we have actually been.

We cover it all…Everything from Mrs Flamingo getting sexy with our girlfriend during her birthday party, to a hot date we had with an out of town couple at a crazy alternative event, and even some about us getting back into the car show scene.

As always, we try to keep it somewhat relevant and discuss a topic. This time we chat about a question someone asked at a recent event, and that is “why do we tolerate drama in the lifestyle” God knows we have seen some of this over the years, and I think most everyone will be able to relate to these examples.

As always, thanks for listening. Now …”Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

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Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

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Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

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In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!” we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!http://www.swingingflamingos.com/photos/

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied! https://www.theclubinokc.com/

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!https://www.altplayground.net/

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 8 “A Transgender Womans Perspective on the Lifestyle “

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We wanted to start this Episode by recognizing Pride Month. The LGBQT+ community has taken a back seat to all the current sickness and turmoil in the world.

In this episode we get to Interview a new friend, Foxy. She is a 32 year old Male to Female transgender, who is very active in both the kink and the swinging community.

We start with the basics questions most people are curious about but never get to ask. We talk about her transition, what she goes thru in choosing this path, and how she decide this is who she was.

Then we get into the juicy stuff….such as her kink and lifestyle backgrounds. It’s an episode full of hypnosis, anal sex, gang bangs, glory holes, and Cum Nazis (Cum Nazis ??).

This was both a very sexual episode, as well as a opportunity to view the lifestyle from a very “alternative” perspective.

We hope you will come “Trans-mingle” with us this episode !

Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s”

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In Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s” we do just that. We go thru some of the things that are positive and negatives for both Mr and Mrs Flamingo when it comes to what we like, as well as dislike in the bedroom.

We dig deeper into what we like in partners, as well as reveal our secret celebrity crushes.

We finish this episode with a game we encourage newbie to play, that will help them identify what they want from partners, as well as build trust in each other.

We hope you’ll come “Flamingle” with us!