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Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart  of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 29 “Our PodBash Vacation”

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Episode 29 ” Our PodBash Vacation”

Holding true to our release dates, we are once again fashionably late…..but we feel it will be worth it for you! In this episode we recap the CRAZY week we had in Florida, where we participated in the PodBash Event http://www.podbashevent.com with a slew of sexy friends and other podcasters.

We start our trip with a visit to a nude beach near Cape Canaveral Fla, and then hit some local bars for drinks and fun. Things then heat up, as our sexy unicorn friend joins us as we check into Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee Fla, http://www.secretsfl.com for our event .

What can I say about PodBash event, other then it was off the hook. Everything from Sun, fun, playrooms, BDSM dungeons, and naked poolside games. If you weren’t there for the inaugural event, you damn sure need to check out this sexy episode, and make plans to join us next year !

Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin”

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In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general.

We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party we threw at an air BnB, that involved some of our sexy friends.

In our main topic, we go over some problems that we have been dealing with in our our experiences with Lifestyle and Swinger clubs.

We go undercover as newbies at a well know local Lifestyle club chain, in an honest effort to get a perspective if  new people are REALLY welcomed into the scene with open arms. What we find out may surprise you.

Then we spend some time going over complaints from our recent trips to what we considered our favorite LS club, and how we have been let down by the direction it seems to be going.

We finish our club tour with an unexpected twist. We take a last minute date to the local Gay clubs for a drag show, and ended up having the most fun we have had anywhere in some time.

Maybe we are getting to old for the club scene?

Anyway, give it a listen, and as always, let us know if you agree or disagree with our ideas and opinions.

 

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

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Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 26 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 1

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In Episode 26 we answer that age old question “Are Singles Swingers?”

Alright…Lets just jump in the fire here. We decided to tackle a topic that we see mentioned somewhere online AT LEAST once a month. In Fact…there is sooooo much to cuss and discuss on this topic, that we will be dividing this into not one, but two back to back episodes.

In this first part, we get a little help from our friends at a recent event, and go thru a handful of interviews, gaining some insight as to what people consider to be “swingers”

We start off with a club owners perspective, and find out what it takes to remain in good standing as a single, as well as what can get you kicked out.

Then we talk with a couple that have both been in the lifestyle as singles, and now dont believe that singles are always a good asset to the LS.

We chat with a unicorn who justifies why she feels she is part of swinging, and spills the beans on some unicorn actions that can bring down the unicorn species.

We have a candid conversation with a couple that prefers both single males and females, but also brings up good points of bad characteristics on both sides.

Lastly we chat with a well vetted and respected area blue fish (or single male), and he gives some tips that he tries to follow when respectfully courting the female half of a couple.

All these well spoken points of view make good arguments to the topic at hand, and will make our job of debating this issue much more difficult in Part 2 of this episode !

Episode 25 ” Sun, Buns, and Where’s Waldo?…..Our Club OKC Pool Party Adventure”

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Episode 25 ” Sun, Buns, and Where’s Waldo?”   Wow…………not even sure where to start on describing this episode ! As always, The Club OKC Pool Party DOES NOT disappoint ! In fact, there is so much sex and silliness in this episode that we go WAYYYY past our normal hour of recording time !

We cover the basic stuff of what happens at this week long party. Everything from contests, to cook outs, to poolside shenanigans.

We try some new styles of play, and while we dont normally kiss and tell, the details of these encounters were too steamy not to share . As always, we take time to re-evaluate what we have experienced together and separately, and decide if it fits our style of play. It sounds like we might have found some new tricks to add to our adventures.

So kick back, enjoy our style of nonsense, and let us know what you think !

 

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

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In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends.  Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 23 – “Dinner with George, and Flamingos Lost at Sea”

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Episode 23 – “Dinner with George , and Flamingos Lost at Sea” talks about all the crazy lifestyle travel we have been doing, as well an AMAZING dinner party we attended.

We start off this episode reviewing the elegant dinner we had with the Just for Dinner group. https://www.justfordinner.com/  Do you know George? If not, you are missing out on everything he and The Group have to offer. This was out first experience with this event, and hope its not the last. Definitely a top shelf operation.

Then we get into some of the crazier lifestyle parties we have been hitting. Everything from the HUGE icandy event in Houstonhttps://icandyparties.com/ , a sexy Memorial day weekend on the lake,  a close lifestyle couple of ours wedding, to finally one of the baddest private pool parties we have ever seen…complete with a live band and killer foam party.

Dont forget we still got rooms available for our event at Secrets Resort in Florida in October http://www.podbashevent.com

Also be sure and check out our sponsor APG http://www.altplayground.net , and check it out 5 DAYS FOR FREE !! …with promo code : Newbie

Now, lets go Flamingle !

Episode 22 – “Fifty Shades of Kink”

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In Episode 22 – “Fifty Shades of Kink”, we break down and discuss some various kinks and fetishes we have encountered over the years.

Since our last few episodes have been a bit more serious in nature, we decide to lighten things up an throw a bit a humor at you.

We start with updating you on our travels, which included a car show trip to Oklahoma CIty that finds us on the side of the road, .a work and party trip that starts with a fist fight on the side of the road, and a crawfish boil that we sneak off early, in hopes of bagging a unicorn for the night.

Then we get into some kinks and fetishes, some of which we have never discussed before, and end up being surprise at each others answers. From impact play, to water sport, we trough through multiple scenarios, and discover that we might have some “furries” action in our near future.

So…..come along and flamingle with us !

Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

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Episode 21 – “Working through Anxiety in the Lifestyle”

Have you or a loved one been affected by anxiety in the lifestyle ? If so…Check out this episode and see if we can help!

In this episode we (finally) dive into Mr Flamingos struggles with anxiety, and things both he and Mrs Flamingo have worked on to help curb his introverted tendencies.

We give a shout out to  http://www.swingershelp.com for an article the wrote entitled “9 ways for Introverts to enjoy better swiniging”. If you feel this Episode has helped you, we encourage you to check out  the resources in this article.

This was a tough episode to record, and at times you can hear some of the raw emotions where we both recall tough times we have encountered due to Mr F’s anxiety.

We hope you will take something positive away from this listen !